" EMAIL FROM MY AUNTIE MARILOU "

To the Herreras:

I heard all sides, Edith, Aida, Nene (Aida's cousin who lives here in the US), Nathan and the consensus is: Danny already expressed his concern about his Mom's gambling but she would not change her ways. He should let it run its course and maybe someday she'll stop gambling. I believe that we all did our part; we have expressed all our opinions. Let's just try to help Danny to the best of our ability. He needs guidance because he grew up with no proper parent supervision. I know all of us care about him. He is our nephew.

I have a special request to all the aunts and uncles in the P.I., since you can communicate with him in person please continue giving him advice. Be patient and give him the moral support he is asking for and at the same time point out things that he's doing wrong. I would appreciate if you keep me posted on the progress.

I cannot say that I'm a perfect parent. I've had my flaws. Living here in the U.S., we're always busy working. I was so engrossed with my career and working to support my kids by myself. I have neglected communicating with my kids on a regular basis. I'm just lucky that they turned out good and motivated. This is also therapy for me and made me realize the importance of being a good parent. I hope we all learned from this, I know I did and Danny's problem might be a blessing in disguise for us: to make the Herrera Clan bond and work together to hopefully turn Danny's life around for the better. Like what Nathan said on his last email, the Herreras are stubborn and that includes our family. But I know the Herreras care about each other and we will try to be there for any family member in need.

Love you all!

Marilou